Hope Y’all are doing well…….
Making friends, as an adult is hard especially if you are an introvert
Here is the thing, growing up we have to learn to let go of people and not to hold on, to toxic friendships. When those people are meant to be in our lives for a short period time and were meant to teach us a certain lesson.
There is a quote that says’ ‘Show me your friends and I tell you who you are’ and I am going to try and share a. Medea/Taylor Perry quote hope I don’t butcher it. “ People are like trees, some come into your life who are seasonal and others are for lifetime, and some people are the leaves the change according to how it the wind blows and others are branches they make look stable but they are not, but when you find roots cause they are stable and unmoving” check out the speech the link is below.
Types Of Friends.
The ones you have in high-school or childhood: More often they are the friendships that last the longest, even if you don’t always communicate. You guys meet through school, family friends, I call them my Day Ones, they are loyal,
Ride Or Die: They are down for whatever, always have your back, if it means rolling up on your boyfriends, help you burn his things. They are loyal and always gas(Hype) you up in any situation.
Workmates: You make them in work situations, you share the fact that you may not like your boss, they can turn into long lasting relationships. If you give them the opportunity.
The Leech: They never pay for, anything you are always footing the bill. They will always show up unannounced at your house and eat everything in your fridge.
Superficial/Acquaintance: These are friends, that are great for partying, it never goes deep you always run into them in parties or you hit them up when you want, to go out.
The Negative One: They never have anything, positive to say about, your achievements, relationships or anything positive happening in your life.
The Gossip: These ones
I have told you the type of friends, now let me … you what makes a great/good friend.
What Makes A Good/Great Friend.
- Giving you sound advice.
- You don’t
…have to communicate everyday, but when you meet up, you pick up where you left off.
- Dropping everything when you are in trouble to bail, you out and help anyway they can.
- Telling you the truth, even when you don’t want to hear it, they can also lie to you if they think, it will benefit you.
- Stand by you when you are strangling if you loose your job, money, a family member.
- When you tell them something they won’t jugde you and won’t share your secrets
- They have seen you at your worst and they celebrate your achivements and successes
Signing Out Ramblings Of A Kenyan Girl
Song Of Post:Over Dose by Shekinah